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MY NEW HOME, ONLINE. [Jul. 1st, 2008|01:39 am]


Please visit my news blog, www.tedregenciareports.blogspot.com
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change of blog addy [Mar. 23rd, 2007|02:17 pm]
hey guys, my blog address is no longer www.tedofdgte.blogspot...changed it to www.skokieswift.blogspot.com...same content though. and this time, regularly updated. see you there!
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Permanent Online Residenc [Mar. 11th, 2007|12:30 am]
Hey guys! I don't know if I can ever keep up maintaining two (three counting my new Friendster blog), online journals. So I have decided to just stick with blogger. Besides, I've never really felt at home here. So, if you guys wanna get an update about my life, just check out www.tedofdgte.blogspot.com. You can always leave a message or comment there too, so we can still keep up with our online convo there. Alrighty!
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A moment with Lisa Ling [Mar. 5th, 2007|12:19 am]
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I just have to post this pic. I was covering the Asian American Coalition of Chicago's 24th Annual Lunar New Year celebration over the weekend, when I realized this celebrity was the guest speaker. I don't easily get star-strucked, or at least I try not too. But not that night, when Lisa Ling showed up.

Lisa's been a long-time correspondent for National Geographic Channel, and that's where I first saw her show her skills in reporting. And not just any kind of reporting. She's into hard-core stuff like Chechnya or Afghanistan or North Korea. And that's what I admire most about her. Recently, she's also been reporting for the Oprah Winfrey Show as a special correspondent covering stories like child labor in Africa and violent gangs in the streets of American. So, here's my pic with her...

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I HEART my MacBook Pro and Niko D80! [Feb. 25th, 2007|02:11 am]
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I finally got a decent laptop and a camera! A 15" widescreen mac book pro and a nikon d80 DSLR. I've been holding off on these two purchases for the longest time. I worried I'd go over my budget, and i'd end up starving at the end of the month. After all, I'm still paying my car loan and my rent. And I still eat you know. Thank God for credit cards, I'm now a few more thousands in debt.

If only for the satisfaction of smelling my new laptop and excitement tinkering my camera, i can say it's worth every penny. Really, it's not a luxury, I do really need those gadgets. I've already stopped writing in paper, generally speaking, and it's always frustrating when I'm already at home and suddenly my mind becomes functional and I can't write. Writing it in paper only leaves me with pages of scratch and nothing to show. Plus using paper is bad for the trees (har har). So I'll have to wait for the next day, and by that time, my brain's reverted to its old catatonic nature. Now, instead of staying long in the office, i can just go home and do my internet stuff while i eat dinner. But I do wonder whether it's more environment-friendly to use an electric-powered laptop, or to write it on paper.


Not having a professional camera is equally frustrating. I was in Springfield two weeks ago for instance, and I could almost see myself shrinking at the sight of those powerful cameras being lugged by those photojournalists covering the Obama presidential announcement. There I was with my Canon Elph Powershot SD300 with 4megapix, trying to get as close to the subject with no apparent success. And understandably so. It's an SD300! Not only can I not zoom in, a slight movement of the subject already results in a terribly blurry image. With a point-and-shoot camera, you'll have to coax the subject to stand still and hold their breath for a few seconds, to get a quality photo, while hoping they won't faint. To be fair, this almost-two-year-old Canon I've got have churned out some pretty nice pics in those kinds of set-up.

In most "news" events, where you don't have that power over the circumstances, when you are at the mercy of the situation, everything changes. Yeah, I'm not a photojournalist, but a reporter, and I'm supposed to capture in words what's going on, describe it as vividly as I could, to my readers, and just leave to the professionals the task of taking the picture. That's not an acceptable excuse anymore. In these day and age of multi-tasking, and short attention spans, images add value to a story. So I just have to learn how to take a good picture myself. Especially in small publication like mine, where we can't always rely, or should I say CANNOT afford, a photojournalist to follow me around all the time. Now that I have a 10.75 megapix-powered camera, I can just go at any moments notice. Although I must admit this new Nikon toy of mine is slightly intimidating.

At the end of the day, however, there's still no substitute for good writing. I'm still working on that, and I hope the tools that I've got will help me achieve just that.
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More pics from my trip to Springfield [Feb. 14th, 2007|06:17 pm]
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Here are some more pics I took during my trip to Springfield, Illinois last Saturday.


One of the guys, who like me, made trip to Springfield to cover the Obama rally.

This is Gov. Rod Blagojevich of the State of Illinois. He was booed when he was introduced during the rally. And to think that he's also a Democrat like Obama. That's one thing I like about politics here, they can show their displeasure to a politico, without facing the risk of getting harmed...or harassed, like what happened to that graduate who protested against Gloria labandera.

After the event, I decided to roam around the emptry streets of Springfield and dropped by the Illinois State House.



and Lincoln's House:



Then it was time to hit the highway. And while driving, I took more pictures of the provincial scenery:



Driving across central Illinois, all you can see are farmlands, some farm houses and endless flat land.



I also made a quick detour to one of the small towns...and it looked empty...not one soul was outside...it looked like one of those ghost towns in the movies.





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Happy V-Day [Feb. 14th, 2007|05:43 pm]
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I got a V-Day message from my beloved Desi earlier, and I'd like to share it with all of you guys:

"The thoughts of his heart, these are the true wealth of a man."

It's a beautiful Burmese quote. I ended up forwarding it to a few other friends. Later, Desi also called to say hi and to inform me that she's date-less. Just like me. Well, I kinda have a date, with four other single gay guys. We're eating at a resto called Ping Pong. It should be interesting.

I'm driving to the city for dinner. From Skokie, where I live, it's a 15 minutes drive to the north side of the city, where Boystown is. Boystown being the haven for boys looking for boys. I'm glad the snow storm is over, or I would be nervously driving in the highway in low visibility.

So yeah, it's been snowing hard here for the past three days or so. Here's how it looked like the other day:



And this is my nanay, all bundled-up.



It's been a challenging week indeed, due to the messy, messy snow storm. I am glad I'm not in Syracuse, New York, where I've heard they got as much as 120+ inches of snow. Last week, while we didn't get much snow, we got sub-zero temps as low as negative 30 degrees F (-34.4 C). Today, it's a little better +14 F or -10 C. It's a cold V day indeed.
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Covering Barack [Feb. 12th, 2007|01:27 pm]
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As many of my closest friends know, I am a news and political junkie. In my career as a journalist, there's nothing more exciting than going to the field and seeing up-close, history as it happens. From the Senate impeachment trial of former president Joseph Estrada to EDSA Dos, when I stayed up without sleep for 48 hours; from squeezing John Kerry's hand during the 2004 campaign, to seeing live Larry King interview the older President Bush atm Madison Square Garden during the '04 Republican Convention, there's nothing more that could excite me. Beats coffee all the time. Last Saturday, Feb. 10, I had my latest chance to get really excited: Barack Obama's announcement to run for president in '08.



This is what I love about my job, going out and not getting stucked in the office doing all the administrative work to keep the publication running.

Springfield, the capital of Illinois, is about three hours drive or 200 plus miles south of Chicago. So I set out early, leaving Skokie at around 5am. It didn't really feel like three hours, because I was on the phone almost the entire drive. I got there past 8am and already saw people lining up three blocks long. Thank God I didn't have to line up, or I would have been frozen. What with the sub-zero temp. I marched to the front of the line and presented my company letter stating that I am from the media. I was given a run around by the volunteers, but I was forgiving because they are volunteers, and perhaps that was their first presidential-size event to handle.

Eventually, I made my way to the media center and got my Obama '08 ID. At that point, I was already starving and needing some hot drink. Then I spotted a table complete with coffee, hot chocolate and muffins, so I helped myself. It turned out the food was for the traveling press, but I didn't get caught and I left with my stomach filled. The ABS-CBN team was not very lucky with the hot chocolate. By the time they tried to get into the area, where the food was, they were told it's off limits. Of course we weren't there for the hot chocolate, we were there to cover the event, darn it! So here I am, with Ms. Ging Reyes of ABS-CBN, smiling as if the cold weather, which everyone was complaining about, didn't hurt.



The throng of people didn't excite me as much as seeing fellow journalists, at least 530, from within the US and abroad. I was in good company I thought. I saw Joe Klein of TIME magazine, Gwen Ifill of PBS and Eric Horng of ABC News. I also made small talk with a French reporter from Le Figaro, and a Springfield journalist, who writes for a gay publication in Central Illinois area. I've covered the Kerry campaign in Chicago in '04 and the Republican convention in New York, but I have never seen so many reporters and their video cameras in my entire life. The photo below is just one of the three platforms where the camera crew were stationed.



Here's the story that I filed for my newsmagazine, and the San Francisco-based Philippine News, which is the largest Pinoy publication in the US.

Obama declares bid for presidency, support from Fil-Ams grows

Springfield, IL – US Senator Barack Obama formally kicked off his bid for president on February 10, preaching his message of hope and transformation to a crowd of 17,000 supporters.

“Let us begin this hard work together. Let us transform this nation,” Obama told his visibly jubilant audience who braved the near-zero temperature, just to witness what one observer dubbed “history in the making.”

Speaking outside the Old State Capitol, Obama began his speech by saying, “praise and honor to God”, immediately laying claim to his Christian faith.

Obama then channeled the legacy of former President Abraham Lincoln, who, like the senator, served in the Illinois state legislature here in Springfield before moving on to the White House.

“In the shadow of the Old State Capitol, where Lincoln once called on a divided house to stand together, where common hopes and common dreams still, I stand before you today to announce my candidacy for President of the United States of America,” he declared to the cheering crowd.

Obama, who is a Democrat, cast himself as the heir of the Republican Lincoln, offering his brand of leadership in a time of war. It was during Lincoln’s presidency when the Civil War broke, followed by the freeing of African-American slaves, an historic event not lost in Obama’s address. If elected, Obama will be the first African-American to occupy the Oval Office.

Among the throng of supporters who heard Obama’s call to action were young Filipino Americans, Justin Cajindos and Julien Abrea Baburka, both history and political science majors at the nearby University of Illinois in Urbana-Champaign.



“It was a fantastic delivery, and I think that he made the right balance between substance and lofty inspiration,” said Cajindos of Hickory Hills, Illinois. Cajindos’ parents hail from Baguio City and Bambang, Nueva Vizcaya.

Cajindos said he has been “a long-time supporter” of Obama, first when he ran for the US Senate in 2004. In 2005, he also worked as an intern in Obama’s office in Washington D.C.

Added Baburka: “He comes from the diverse culture and he is also very charismatic, qualities that we are yearning for.” Baburka’s mother is a native of Southern Leyte in the Philippines.

Reporters from various Filipino media companies like ABS-CBN and Journal Group Limited were also there to record the event for the Filipino readers and television viewers across the US. They traveled three hours south from Chicago, joining an estimated 530 other journalists, from the US and around the world, who covered the event.

In Chicago, Atty. Vanessa Vergara of the Filipino Civil Rights Advocates, said “there isn't a formal, organized Fil-Am effort quite yet.” Vergara and her lawyer husband have been supporting Obama ever since he was an Illinois state legislator, representing Chicago’s South Side. Last Sunday, February 11, Vergara attended a fundraiser for Obama.

Another Filipino American expected to work for Obama’s election is Atty. Aurora Abella-Austriaco, the first female and minority president of the Illinois Real Estate Lawyers’ Association, an organization of more than 1,200 real estate attorneys throughout Illinois.

Obama and Austriaco, who was named one of Today’s Chicago Woman’s “100 Women Making a Difference” in 1997 and 2000, are on first-name basis. When the latter ran, unsuccessfully, for a seat as Main Township Trustee, Obama personally campaigned for her. Incidentally, Austriaco lives in the Chicago suburb of Park Ridge, the hometown of Obama’s chief rival Sen. Hillary Clinton of New York.

At the Springfield announcement, Obama also tried to dispel criticism that he lacks experience saying, "I know that I haven't spent a lot of time learning the ways of Washington. But I've been there long enough to know that the ways of Washington must change."

On the most controversial issue of the day, Obama urged “an end to this war in Iraq.” “I opposed this war from the start. I thought it was a tragic mistake,” he added, as he proposed to “bring our combat troops home by March of 2008.”

Obama also proposed a universal health care for all Americans and an end to dependence on foreign oil.

In a speech full of symbolism, Obama sought a page from former President John F. Kennedy’s playbook, talking about "a new generation” of leadership. Kennedy was Obama’s age when he won the presidency.

“Each and every time, a new generation has risen up and done what's needed to be done. Today we are called once more — and it is time for our generation to answer that call.”

He also made reference to the most prominent figure of the Civil Rights movement, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. when he declared “to let justice roll down like water, and righteousness like a mighty stream.”

Illinois Attorney General Lisa Madigan said “it’s not a surprise” that Obama delivered an “extraordinary” speech.

“He’s the embodiment of the diversity of this country and he has that unique ability to energize people. He has mass appeal,” Madigan said.

Not all are ready to join the movement dubbed by the media as Obama-mania.
While enjoying a late afternoon lunch at a nearby pizza inn, a World War II veteran who fought in Europe, said he has “mixed feelings” about Obama.

Earlier as Obama started his speech, a small crowd of anti-abortion protesters carrying signs "Life Yes, Obama No" shouted their disapproval of his candidacy. Volunteers manning the security prevented them from entering the rally grounds that was blocked by railings, but they managed to get the attention of the media.

Meanwhile, a middle-aged African-American woman, who refused to be identified, on the other hand, expressed her concern about the safety of Obama.
“It would be nice to have an African-American president, but I am afraid that if he will get too far, they will hurt him,” she said, adding that a lot of people feel threatened by Obama’s rise to power.

Obama, 45, was born in Hawaii. His father, who is black, is from Kenya and his mother, who is a white, is from Kansas. As a kid, he lived with his mother, his Indonesian step-father, and half-sister in Jakarta, before moving back to Hawaii, where he was raised by in white household by his grandparents.

After high school, he studied for two years at Occidental College near Los Angeles, California, before transferring to Columbia University in New York, where he majored in International Affairs.

After graduation, he moved to Chicago and worked as a community organizer on the city's South Side, receiving $13,000 a year. He later graduated from Harvard Law School, where he served as the first black editor of the Harvard Law Review. After law school, he returned to Chicago, where he met his wife Michelle.

In 1996, he ran for the Illinois Senate and served there for four terms. He worked to reform the death penalty system and helped enact new ethics legislation.

In 2000, he challenged another African-American, Congressman Bobby Rush. He lost that election, but later earned Rush’s backing to run for president.

In 2004, he launched his Senate campaign, which many political observers thought was not winnable. Later that year after clinching the nomination, he delivered the keynote address during the Democratic Party convention, catapulting him to national prominence and his eventual run for president.


After the event, it was on to a nearby eatery, where I shared an extra-large, thin crust pizza with the ABS-CBN team from San Francisco and two other Chicago-based Filipino reporters. Then off I was to a mini tour around Springfield, to the State Capitol and the house where Abe Lincoln and his family once lived. But that's for another blog entry.


A statue of Abe in front of the State House.


A state employee giving a free tour inside the State House. I was with a group of multi-ethnic high school students and their American History buff of a teacher, who just came home after fighting in Tikrit, Iraq. Bless his soul for exposing his students to history and civics. Earlier, they also witnessed the Barack Obama rally.


Lincoln's home.


Inside Abe's home. Many of the furniture pieces are original. I learned that Abe even owned a wooden commode, inside which they put their portable metal or porcelain toilet, as in orinola. Since water was scarce, Abe and his family only take a bath twice a month, sharing warm water stored in a huge pot.
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Reposts from my blogger [Jan. 17th, 2007|09:59 pm]
I've changed my mind. Instead of sticking to blogger alone, I've decided to post my entries here as well. Just for you guys, just for you... ;)
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Repost from Blog-4 [Jan. 17th, 2007|09:56 pm]
Yatta!

My blog's (www.tedofdgte.blogspot.com) favIcon is up! HTML-challenged as I am, I finally figured it out using MyFavatar, as recommended by my dearie friend Ian. I actually got jealous that he has one. Hehe. Thanks sweetie for the inspiration. Muah!

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In other news, this one girl that I have known for a long time e-mailed me the other day on friendster. She's actually a cousin of my cousin from the other side of her family. Her family is based in Cebu, but they often visit dear old Dap-Dap. When we were kids we used to hang out whenever they visit our barriotic during the summer. Layawan River was our territory. All day, we just swim and swim until our skin would be chocolate-colored. I did remember that I developed a crush on her, and I had a feeling it was a mutual attraction. It dragged on until we reached high school, and then college. By then our regular summer trips to Layawan had ended, and the tributary had already been slowly taken over by garbage, and animal wastes from upriver. But we still saw each other from time to time.



Throughout those years, however, I never really managed to follow-up on my having a crush on her. Probably because it was just a pure simple crush. Or probably because my gut was telling me it's not going to work. That it'll be just for a show...and certainly I wasn't eager at all to be part of a show. I don't know. I was young and clueless. Still, it never stopped my cousins and aunts from teasing me, and pairing me up with her, which I have grown to resist as the years progressed. The last time I saw her during a wedding, she just graduated from MedTech school, and I think I just started working at ABS-CBN in Manila. By that time, I've already sold myself to Dodong, while still trying to project my "straightness" for public consumption. Even then, I would not dare use her to prop up my image. Unlike so many Pinoy "bi" guys, I just couldn't bring myself to do it. So I just left it at that. And it was better like that.

Friendster made us re-establish contacts a few months back. But it wasn’t more than the usual “hi” and “hello” exchange. Not until recently when I edited my profile and said that I’m now dating MEN. Which prompted her to confront me with, “So you are into guys already huh? That is so sad.” I said in reply, that if I were straight, I would probably have pursued her. But I am not, and I did not want to cheat myself by doing so, adding that she deserves somebody straight, not that straight guys are better. I, on the other hand, “deserves to be just honest and true to myself.”

I thought that would shut her up. Instead, she sent a rejoinder saying that somebody actually told her about “your new personality.” “I bet you have lots of boyfriends.” New personality? Lots of bfs? WTF! Do I look like a “slut machine”? I’m gay yes, not a ‘ho. I’m not a saint, but I refuse her putting me in that box. I would have loved putting her in her place, but she probably doesn’t know better, and I would have sounded like an uncouth individual. If at all she did that on purpose, then it’s not my problem anymore. I still have my dignity intact.
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Repost from Blog-3 [Jan. 17th, 2007|09:56 pm]
It's war escalation, stupid!



I watched the entire address of President Bush tonight on ABC, which lasted I think for about 15 minutes or so. One thing that struck me is that, after all these years in the White House, six years to be exact, he still hasn't grown in stature and respectability. Nevermind the wisdom, he doesn't have it in the first place. Sure he has grown more white hair and earned more creases in his forehead, but he still fumbles his words, and blinks like a deer caught in the headlights when he talks on TV. With apologies to the deer.

But the comparison is an apt description of Bush, particularly on the topic of Iraq. For one, he is caught red-handed, or more appropriately empty-handed in Iraq. How else could you justify the invasion when there's no nuclear, or in Bush-speak, nucular, weapons found in the expanse of Mesopotamia? When, instead of bringing peace in the region after Saddam's ouster and eventual death, the unjustified and unnecessary war fomented more violence, bred more terrorists, killed tens of thousands of Iraqi civilians and taxed the lives of many young American soldiers.

And now this, a surge? And he has the gumption to trick the American people again and call it a surge? To paraphrase Sen. Edward Kennedy of Massachusetts, whatever name you may call it, it is still an escalation of the war. A war that is failing monumentally. As Sen. Richard Durbin of Illinois has said, the increase in the number of troops is too little to stop the violence, and to much to endanger the lives of American fighters. If he committed a mistake, and he said so himself, in his strategy to secure Baghdad, it is indeed too risky to correct the mistake by sending more troops in the line of fire. Instead of forcing the Iraqi government to take greater responsibility on the ground, Bush once again re-affirmed his stubborness and his pride to admit his disastrous mistake, by sending more troops. Is he really after the security of Iraq, or the preservation of his pride to admit failure? A failure that cost too many lives.

I've been thinking, if only the war did not happen at all, then Bush could have afford to give billions to fix the ailing American healthcare system, vastly improve the educationa that is lagging at a time when emerging superpower China is training its students to excel globally, and invest in renewable and clean energy, while securing the borders and improving security, which until today have remained questionable. Even fixing the mess in New Orleans and strengthening a pale economy. Then we would not have let all those innocent children, women and men, those soldiers to shed their own blood to achieve a capricious and arrogant goal of Bush and his minions.

Unfortunately, America is stuck in Iraq. And truth be told, before it could extract itself from there, more lives will have to be unnecessarily sacrificed.
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Repost from Blog-2 [Jan. 17th, 2007|09:55 pm]
iPhone, iLove


I just can't take my eye off the slick and so luciously tempting iPhone. I was just browsing the news online a few days back when I first read about the much-anticipated release of this new beauty from Apple. Although I use Mac for publishing, I'm not really one of those fanatics. Still, I waited with much anticipation Steve Job's announcement yesterday, January 9. As everyone knows, the new gadget created a lot of buzz and scrutiny. And I must admit I also got transfixed that I read up a bunch of stories, wanting to learn more about this new toy. A phone, an iPod and a PDA rolled into one. What else can I ask for? For now, nada.

At the end of the day, I was more than convinced that I am going to get one, once it is out of the market. Unfortunately, I just learned today that my two-year contract with my current phone carrier, T-Mobile, is not expiring until December of 2007. That means, I will have to wait six more months from the time of the release of the phone on June 2007, before I can get hold of this thing. That also means I have to switch to Cingular Wireless and sign a two-year contract, because iPhone is exclusively being distributed by this AT&T subsidiary. Bad news for my current phone company, which I have been using for four years now. Then again, I am not really satisfied with my current carrier because I always experience too many drop calls, which is very annoying especially when you are in the middle of an important conversation. The only thing the kept me from switching is the hassle of doing so. Plus a number of my friends are also T-Mobile subscribers. Bad news too for NOKIA, which is my cellphone of choice until I got my eye on this new Apple invention. But December is still a long way to go, so I will have to deal with my provider for a few more months, and the Nokia 6101 that I got two generations ago.

As I have said, I'm not really a techie. My phone for instance is just a regular flip phone a Makati officer worker, or even an Ortigas call center operator would frown upon. But I don't care coz unlike the kids in Manila, people here don't really give a damn if you have the latest cellphone or not, so long as it is working. In fact my boss who has tons of money in the bank still owns a much older Nokia model. I also don't own an iPod or even a $99 Shuffle. For this new iPhone, however, I am counting myself in. For now, I will have to forego of my meals for 12 months so I can save enough to be able to afford the pricetag of $499. Good luck to me!
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Repost from Blog-1 [Jan. 17th, 2007|09:53 pm]
Since I am too lazy still to post an actual entry, I'm just gonna post some photos instead. The photos were taken during a private New Year's Eve party hosted by one of my Chicago friends. Have a blessed Year 2007 to y'all!!!





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www.tedofdgte.blogspot.com [Jan. 10th, 2007|07:36 pm]
hey guys! i havent been here for the longest time. i've never been a livejournal type really. the past few days, however, i've been updating my blogger site. i've also promised myself to update it more often. i'm inspired by ian's vow to update his blog daily. so feel free to visit me there na lang and leave me a message. alrighty...
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MERRY CHRISTMAS! [Dec. 24th, 2006|09:54 am]
Whether you're naughty or nice, here's to y'all: A very merry, blessed Christmas!!! Love you and miss you!!!
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Ping-Ping in Chicago [Dec. 15th, 2006|03:45 pm]
I'm breaking my self-imposed silence to post this pic of Ping-ping and me in Chicago. Of course you guys know Ping. She's now based in LA after being officially hitched last November 19. Ping's brother, a pastor is studying somewhere in Gurnee, a suburb north of Chicago. It so happened that she visited her brother here last week (minus the hubby who's busy tending his high school students), so we got a chance to meet up even for a very short while. Meeting up involved some cross-continental communication: Ping had to contact KK in Sydney just to get my number, and KK texted to inform me that Ping's in Chicago. So we had a late lunch date next to Wrigleyfield, home of the Chicago Cubs. Then we drove to the city's museum campus where we took this photo with the Chicago skyline as our backdrop. We also made a quick round in downtown Chicago and the whole time Ping and I were protesting against the biting cold wind from Lake Michigan. I was afraid Ping's ears would turn to icicle. Then I would have been in big trouble with the hubby.
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This made me laugh... [Feb. 15th, 2006|03:22 pm]
Actually, I never had a plan to update my livejournal. At least, not yet. Wala lang, di lang gud nako feel. Hehe. Then, I came across this funny news article while surfing the net. I thought I wanted to share this with you guys. This one's published in the Visayan Daily Star website. This made me really laugh...in a positive kind of way of course.


Crying bride interrupts mass wedding

BY CHRYSEE SAMILLANO

A "crying bride" whose partner arrived late, interrupted the rites officiated by Bacolod Mayor Evelio Leonardia at the mass wedding of 373 couples, that he solemnized on Valentine's Day at the Bays Center in Bacolod City.

As the ceremony was about to end, and Leonardia was asking the couples to kiss each other, Bernadette Tocama, 27, of Brgy. Punta Taytay tapped the Mayor's shoulder, saying, "Mayor, my partner and I have not yet been married."

Leonardia cheerfully officiated at a special ceremony for Tocama and her husband, Jee-R Villaluna, 24, on the stage of the Bays Center, when the mass weddings was over.

Tocama later said that she cried because, if they are not married, the church will not release the baptismal certificate of their 9-month-old daughter Daisy. She said Jee-R left for Hinigaran Monday to go fishing and was not able to wake up early yesterday, and failed to come on time.

Meanwhile, the oldest couple during the ceremony yesterday were George Zolaybar, 73, and Lilia Flores, 63, of Zone 6, Brgy. Handumanan, who also had the most number of children.

The wedding coincided with George's 73rd birthday. George, a retired employee of the Bacolod Murcia Milling Co., said he and Flores have been living together since Feb. 14, 1956 and were celebrating their own "golden anniversary" yesterday. He said they have 12 children, four of whom are in the Philippine Army. The couple received a free overnight stay at Alhambra Hotel as their wedding present.

The youngest couple were Lito Barbon and Mayrin Atienza, of Barangay 13. Both are 18, and have a one-year-old daughter named Honeylyn. Barbon said he earns a living by selling bananas, while Atienza is a housewife. They have been living together for more than two years.
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Vatican publishes edict prohibiting ordination of homosexuals [Nov. 29th, 2005|07:01 pm]
Now it can be told, I can't be a priest. But truth to tell, I once entertained the thought of becoming one. That was in high school. I remember, I even took qualifying examinations in two seminaries during my senior year. But for some reason, my interest fizzled. Later on, while I was in college, I revisited that issue. But by that time, I was more or less sure that I'm gay. Only not openly gay. At least that time. So I thought pursuing that vocation was already out of the question. How could one be a priest and entertain the thought of hooking up with another guy, and then actually doing it? I asked myself. With that, I put to rest a childhood fantasy of officiating a mass. Yes, a childhood fantasy. When I was five or six...or maybe seven, I always pretend that I was Fr. Socias, the local chaplain. Then, I would mount on a high chair and give blessings to my lola and lolo, whom I called mama and papa, my mom, whom I called nanay, and my aunts. I'd like to think, I still bring lots of blessings to all of them. Only, I'm not a priest.

Thinking about the issue now, in hindsight, I am tempted to ask, why would the church allow straight men to become priests, when in fact they too entertain sexual thoughts, only straight sexual thoughts. The church doesn't ban a priest, who has the tendency of acting straight and you know, entertaining girls while in the seminary. I know some priests who even maintain girlfriends, while vowing to the rule of celibacy. And I know, or smelled some gay priests, who may or may not be faithful to their vow. This new Vatican rule is unfair to those priests who are faithful, gay or otherwise. So is the church hierarchy just too hard on human beings, that even Jesus Christ himself would disapprove of it?"


Vatican publishes edict prohibiting ordination of homosexuals

VATICAN CITY (AFP) - The Vatican published an instruction approved by Pope Benedict XVI banning bishops across the world from ordaining homosexuals into the priesthood.

The edict has already sparked a row within the Roman Catholic Church and has been widely condemned by gay and civil rights groups when leaked extracts were published by newspapers last month.

The prohibition applies to seminarians involved in homosexual practices as well as those displaying "deep-seated homosexual tendencies" or those who support "gay culture."

The Church "while profoundly respecting the persons in question, cannot admit to the seminary or to holy orders those who practice homosexuality, present deep-seated homosexual tendencies or support the so-called 'gay culture.'"

"One must in no way overlook the negative consequences that can derive from the ordination of persons with deep-seated homosexual tendencies," the 21-paragraph instruction says.

The instruction follows a series of sex scandals within the Catholic Church in the United States, Latin America and Europe, and belated Vatican efforts to tackle priestly paedophilia.

However, the edict approved by the 78-year-old pope leaves the door to the priesthood ajar for men whose homosexuality was only "the expression of a transitory problem -- for example that of adolescence not yet superseded."

It said men undergoing such a passing phase of homosexuality must show their tendencies had been "clearly overcome at least three years before ordination to the diaconate." A seminarist becomes a deacon up to two years before full ordination.
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Random Thoughts On A Cold And Rainy Autumn Day [Nov. 15th, 2005|01:55 pm]
I think in my past life, I was Jewish. For one, I love Kaufmann Deli's kosher foods (I just had my kosher lunch...burp). And I am friends with the amiable old man at the Kaufman counter. My gym buddy, Gilli, is also Jewish and he once served in the Israeli Army. I now live in the village of Skokie, a predominantly Jewish neighborhood...and we've got a few remaining survivors of the Holocaust as neighbors too. Frank Ephraim, who once fled Hitler's Germany and sought shelter in the Philippines with his parents, had an instant liking of me when I first called his home in Maryland. Once, in my fictitious life as a villager of Anatevka, I escaped the Russian pogrom. And yes, I can say, L'chaim without much effort. L'chaim!
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Last Thursday, Shiro Omichi, a Japanese friend, many of you guys know, paid me a visit here in Chicago. Shiro is more popularly known as the crush of Teresa Panzo. I haven't seen Shiro in seven years and eight months, so it was great to get together again...and of all places, here in the Windy City. Shiro's planning to take MBA next year and he was on a whirlwind tour of universities here including Harvard, Columbia U, UPENN's Wharton School of Biz, and Northwestern U's Kellogg School of Biz, which happens to be only ten minutes from the condo where I now live. What's good about our meeting was it didn't seem like we haven't seen in other in a long, long time. We didn't even talk on the phone or through email since he left Silliman and went back to ICU in 1998. But when we saw each other last Thursday, it felt like only months and we were ready to pick up our conversation where we left it off the last time.
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This dating thing, it is such an expensive enterprise: $55 for a Shiseido facial wash and moisturizer. But it's all good...I like the figuring it out part. I don't exactly know the tricks of the trade as compared to my senior (ahem!) counterparts like Ian, Aldwyn, Clee and Eric, but as I've said I'm enjoying, immensely, the maneuvers, the turns and the dodges.
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Did you guys hear the new Madonna album? It's extremely danceable. Madonna back to the '80s. How cool is that? All I can say is that WE enjoyed dancing all night Saturday to Sunday morning to Madonna's songs...and Cher's...and Jocelyn Enriquez's. Thanks to the Vodka and Red Bull that WE shared, I was soooo wide-awake the whole Sunday and managed to attend the 12:15 Sunday Mass. No, not at the Synagogue, but at Skokie's St. Peter's Catholic Church.
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Brokeback Mountain [Nov. 14th, 2005|03:15 pm]


This tear-jerker of a film is not due 'til December 9 yet, but this early, I'm already preparing a bucket for a "cry me a river" session. I've already shed some after seeing the trailer and reading the reviews. Still, I think I've got enough to fill my bucket. The challenge now is to pick the right company to watch the film with. Should I invite my date to see it, and let him witness how I emote? Or should I just invite a girl friend, so we can just share some tissue? Now those are the questions that require the convening of the United Nations Security Council, to answer.
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